my "True Color" is gold

Today I went to 2 training courses at work. It was a nice break off the phones and the weather was absolutely gorgeous. The whole time I was in class, I was daydreaming about being outside enjoying the sunshine. The courses I took today were "Handling Emotions Under Pressure" and "True Colors". The emotions course is self explanatory. It was basically how to control your own reactions to other people's behaviors and vice versa. Most of the course content was basic stuff like "if you're going to be pissy at someone then they will reflect it right back at you...". Duh!

The afternoon course was called True Colors. It was basically a personality profiling course. I really like these kinds of courses cause I indulge in psychoanalysis. :-) It's all those years in psychology that got me hooked! I found out that I have a "Gold" personality with "Green" right on my tail. I wasn't surprised though as the description of the personality matched me and the job that best suited people of my personality is the job that I'm in. Find out here what your True Color is. You might be surprised what you find out! During some of the group work exercises I discovered that I'm better off working on my own. :-) We did a structure building exercise and a "survivor" exercise. My teams structure fell over eventhough I warned them that the most stable structure is a triangle...but of course they only listened to the loudest person in the group (which for once was not me). In the survivor game we were given a list of things from a plane crash site. We had to list them from most important to least important. We did this task in 2 phases. In one scenerio you have to do it on your own and the other scenerio you have to come up with the rating with your group. Needless to say that only 2 of us in the group have "survival" smarts. I think my group was doomed from the beginning as they were mostly Blue and Orange people. You'll know what I mean if you take the True Colors test. Note to self: when stranded in a desert; the number one thing to have (according to survival specialists) is a cosmetic mirror.

Happy Mama's Day

This weekend we celebrated Mother's Day. KA really surprised us with her (well) hidden technical expertise. She built a very touching PowerPoint presentation about my mom's life.

It told a story of how my mom went from a young lady...
...to a mom
....then to a grandma.

Mom was very happy to see all the old pictures as it brought back tons of memories. My sister's and I had a good laugh reminiscing about the "old days"...not to mention what our style sense was like back then.

KA also pointed out my mom was not the only "mom" in our family...
Carol joined the "mom" ranks in 1999...

and all of us got to play "mommy" when Mui Mui came into our lives.

Namaste

So I signed up for the one month unlimited pass at Yogapod today. I'm quite pleased that I've been able to continue my commitment to it for the past week and a half. Peter has been a great motivator and good yoga partner. We've been going everyday - we even truck in from the boonies to make it to class on the north shore on the weekends. As each day passes by I feel as if my body is getting weaker - I got to taste carpet yesterday in an attempt to do "crow". Maybe my body is rebelling cause it's not use to exercising so much. I'm hoping that after the month pass ends I will have nurtured the workout behavior. There is a 30 day yoga challenge starting June 1st. Peter and I have talked about it. Basically we'd be signing up to do yoga for 30 days consecutively - kind of like a yoga marathon. The only problem is that Peter doesn't work here (he's an Aria contractor) and if he doesn't land a job with my company then they'll be shipping him back to Seattle at the beginning of June. So he's torn as to whether or not he'll be able to continue his practice - the guy has found his calling in yoga. I probably won't be as viligant with yoga without him. I'm the type that needs a "buddy" for all cardiovascular endeavors. :-) I need encouraging expressions such as "I'm going to KILL you if you're not at yoga tomorrow morning!" It pumps up the not-so-hidden competitive part of me which in turns gets the procrastinating part up from her ass and into the studio.

worth 90.21 cents

On Sunday, May 7th Kel and I went down to Auburn, WA to do some shopping and get some things done to his car. The weather was awful when we left Vancouver. Both of us were pretty tired as we had spent the weekend hanging out with family and not sleeping very much. I was in dire need of coffee. I would have preferred it if someone just injected me with caffeine. The I-5 highway was not as busy as I thought it would be. Though we had left at 6am so that we could arrive in Auburn at 9am. During our time down there I perused through the SuperMall. Our dollar was worth cent to the US dollar. We were hoping to take advantage of this fact. Kel found some clothes at the outlet shops on our way back home. I didn't see anything that triggered my interest. But then again I had already boughten a rain coat and pair of Lululemon shorts the day before - both of which were spontaneous buys. I have a problem with buying things that I don't "need". It's a bad habit that I haven't been able to break.

art defined

Day 3 at YogaPod. We've ventured into the realms of Power Yoga and Hot Yoga. Though the journey has been strenuous and I feel a bit sore from all the stretching/posing. I do feel a sense of calm and happiness after each session. I think I will sign up for the unlimited month pass when I'm done with this unlimited week pass. Today as part of our warm up for Bikram (hot) yoga, the teacher explained the meaning behind one of the statues in the pod. The statue is pictured here. I like the way the teacher brings physical and mental learning together. Not only do we get to practice the physical aspects of yoga but we listen to many of it's teachings. The coolest thing was a reference to "Puja" - which means "devotion"- as that is the name of a friend of mine from Saskatoon.

While sitting in these yoga classes, I can help but admire everyone's equipment or clothing. I know I should be concentrating on myself but I'm a sucker for fashion. There are many stores in which you can deck yourself in yoga wear. I will post some of the stores on the "fun buys" links - check them out!

Peas in a Pod

Today I went to YogaPod with some of my coworkers. It's the beginning of summer and Rav (the group planner) likes to kick off each year with a "group activity". This year's fad is yoga. Which I think is much more manageable than last year's Grouse Grind adventures. Though I did feel like I accomplished a lot after each climb up the mountain.

Like always we dived in without thinking. Got ourselves a $20 unlimited-one-week-pass. I'm not sure how many times we'll actually go though. Today we did Hot Yoga. It wasn't as bad this time around as I had already tried out this type of yoga with Tracey at the Bikram Yoga center in Coquitlam. After an hour and a half of sweating and posing; the four of us stepped out of there more refreshed and happier than when we stepped in. We agreed to go again tomorrow. Tomorrow's class is Power Yoga. I'm looking forward to it.

One man's garbage is another man's treasure.

Today is the annual "Spring Cleaning" in my neighborhood. This is the only time of the year where you can throw trash onto your lawn and have onlookers shuffle through it for hidden treasures. Once all the good hunting is over, the garbage men come and pick up the left overs. It's been interesting watching the neighbors bring out their trash. There was a sad looking scarecrow across the street that caught my attention. Unfortunately he was not picked up by any of the treasure hunters. I couldn't find anything to toss. I have to admit - I'm a pack rat. Not to the point of total chaos but I attach sentimental value to too many useless items that should belong in the dump.

It's a beautiful evening and as I sit by the window writing in this blog, I can't help but ponder the thought of doing something more "productive". The thought of walking into the gym crossed my mind after work today. As I walked the 2 blocks to my car the fleeting thought disappeared and I justified it by saying "I've got a long commute home and the traffic will be bad". So I sat in traffic, munched on some carrots (to keep myself from falling asleep - this is actually a very bad alternative for caffeine) and looked at the other commuters who were talking on their cell phones. It made me want to talk on mine too - but alas...I have no one to call. Chicky bought me a blue-tooth headset for my cell phone but I haven't programmed it for voice recognition yet. If you are rolling your eyes (which I'm sure my girl friends are right now) - you obviously don't know about my gadget fetish.

"I think I will go to the gym tonight" - keyword being THINK. I've invested a lot of money into that place but hardly ever use my membership. I think the membership is just an excuse for buying nice "workout" clothes - that are like WAY too nice (aka expensive) to work out in so I would never wear them to the gym anyways! :-) You know what I'm talking about...all you Lululemon shoppers...

April Showers

Today we had a baby shower for Josie's little girl - Katarina. It was a very nice to have Josie's close friends gather together to celebrate the new addition to her family. We gobbled down food and "girl talked" for a few hours. After that we played some baby games. Jenny proved to be a very good competitor. She's the all time winner of the baby sock game.Katarina shared the attention with Heather's baby - Hannah. It was cute to have these kids in the house. Sheila brought her boys who stole the show as well.

More wedding bliss

On the weekend Chicky and I went to one of his co-workers weddings. It was a very beautiful ceremony at the Immaculate Conception Church in Delta. I must say that is one of the most obscure churches I've been too. Obviously Chicky and I had to break out the map book after numerous wrong turns and frustrated sighs. The ceremony was not very long and Chicky's other co-worker played the violin for the church ceremony - how sweet. Actually it turned out that many other Richie Bros. staff members were in attendance as photographers, djs or helpers. :-) Maybe everyone at Richie Bros has a second job. It was a filipino wedding so I liked the food and the games that they played. Chicky and I had a good time but were pretty tired as we didn't sleep at all the night before. Chicky has gotten into the habit of staying up late with the other boys in my house to battle it out on the poker table. He'd better be a poker star soon and make us some real money!

Tomorrow is often the busiest day of the week.

I've been back in Vancouver for a week now and feel as if I have not accomplished anything. I've been saying "I'll do that tomorrow...". But tomorrow comes and goes and what I intended on completing gets pushed back to another "tomorrow".

Today I confirmed my flight to Las Vegas for Betty's stagette party on the May long weekend. It should be a fun trip. It's my third time to Vegas in the last couple of years and we're going to be staying at Ceasars Palace (I've never stayed there before). This is a combined stagette (2 brides) so it's going to be strange. The other girl is getting married 5 days after Betty and both of them are each other's bridesmaids. How confusing. Not only that - 3 of their mutual friends are bridesmaids for both of the ladies.

Since I've been back I've been trying to catch up at work, cleaning, unpacking and get reaquainted with my friends. I'm sorry if I haven't had a chance to speak to you yet! It's late so I will end it here. I hope to get a few more pictures posted to the gallery so keep an eye out for new updates.

Welcome Katarina Mackey!

I just want to say congratulations to Josie and Jonathan on their new family member. They welcomed a beautiful and healthy baby girl - Katarina - at 5:16am today at St. Paul's Hospital in Vancouver.

Katarina Mackey
born: April 16, 2006
weight: 7lb, 8oz

Both Katarina and Josie are doing well. The whole family will be going home tomorrow afternoon.

Memories of Mexico

April 13th

Just got back from a latin club. Our guy cousins took us there so that we would be able to see at least one bar before we left. We leave tomorrow morning. The club reminded me so much of Mexico. They had a live mariachi band and the singers were good. The drinks were like Puerto Vallarta too - super strong! I was red faced pretty fast. One of the guest came up to sing. He was a french pilot. I laughed and said "I sure hope he isn't our pilot tomorrow!". I think it would be funny if he was our pilot tomorrow. Uh oh!! He sang 2 french songs. The band is great as they can play not only latin stuff but english and french stuff. Guests are allowed to make requests. Someone requested Louis Armstrong's "Wonderful World" - the singer tried to imitate Louis...bad choice. The begining was like Louis but as the song progressed the worst it got. KA was really impressed with the musicians. One of them could play so many instruments. She says she would fall for a guy who could play piano like that. I agree! Lol...don't know that many guys that play instruments though. After our drinks I decided that it would be best to straddle the motorbike with my skirt on. It's impolite but at least I'd be stable. Last thing I want is to fall off the bike with my tipsy driver. Good thing is that at night the streets aren't as busy. When we got home the front desk attendant was waiting for us. The hotel looked like it was closed. We usually leave our hotel with the front desk people (something that people do here). The hotel staff are good though as when we come and go they hand us our key without even asking us our names or room numbers. We can't exactly run away either as when you check into a hotel here you have to give them your passport for "safe keeping". I think it's a guarantee that you won't take off without paying.

A work of art

April 13th

• This morning we dragged my guy cousin around shopping for 9 hours - I think he's getting tired of holding our bags and following us around. He's still a very good sport though.
  
• We went to the Independance Palace but it was closed for renovations so AN took us to do some more "tourist" stuff.
  
• We went to see a french cathedral. Very large and old. AN says that the bricks have never had moss grow on them eventhough the structure is over 125 years old. That's pretty cool. Too bad Vietnamese construction companies can't copy the same chemical makeup for their bricks. There's a large statue of Mary in the front of the cathedral. AN says that the statue cried once - but I'm not sure if I believe him or not. Though there have been accounts of catholic statues crying before (in other countries).
  
• We went to see the oldest post office in Vietnam as well. It's over 130 years old and still functions as a post office. There were lots of tourists inside. One tourist took a picture of KA sitting on the bench as she must have looked odd to them. She was sporting her usual face mask, full length gloves, hat and sun glasses. She's been very particular about her face mask in the last couple of days because of her mole removal.
• We went to an english bookstore - the prices were equivalent to here so I didn't pick up anything. The bookstore had some cool books though. I wish I read more. Maybe I should work on that when I get back. I was able to finish one book on this trip though - despite what KA and Kelvin said!
  
• We went into a art gallery that had cool designed T-shirts. Spent a lot of money on gift t-shirts for the family (a tradition in my family - everywhere we go...we get t-shirts for each other). I think they will like these though as they have asian designs and are replicas of some of the artwork. I just like them because there are images on the front and back of the shirts. I'm into images on the back of my shirt now - makes the shirt more interesting to look at from all angles.

• In the afternoon AN took us to a hair salon. He has a friend who is a product distributor and that guy recommended this place. I had my hair washed here as well as my face washed. It was a good experience. The girl did the standard stratching, rubbing, massage and pressure-point-pressing. The only difference was that this salon had massage chairs that we sat in while our hair was washed. That was pretty distracting. They used Herbal Essence to wash our hair - what an orgasmic experience! :-) The girl washing my hair told me my hair was falling out. I asked how much - she said "enough". I told her I wasn't worried as every hair dresser I've been to tends to spend half the appointment thinning out my hair anyways.
  
• The main reason for going to the salon was to have our hair treated with oils or conditioners. As the straigtening procedure dried out our hair. My hair was already coarse and dry prior to the straightening.
  
• The head hairdresser was a gay guy. At first I couldn't tell if he was a man or a woman. He's pretty flamboyant though and it made things fun. :-) Can always count on gay guys to be super trendy.
• He complained about the state of my hair. Told me that the person who straightened my hair burned some of it - lovely. I'm suppose to wait for it to grow out and just cut it off. I asked him to fix my hair cut as the nail tech that cut it when I straightened my hair did a crappy job. The layers aren't blended and they are super chunky. He shook his head and said I shouldn't get hair cuts from someone who had just finished painting my nails. Point taken.
  
• This guy is a Honger so I'm use to the style that he cut. He told me my hair is still puffy and began thinning it - guess I can't escape the thinning shears. The hair dresser's name is pronounced "she" - which KA and I thought was perfect as he on the border line of a he/she. :-) He has longer and nicer hair than me. Not to mention I like his nails (very nice designs).
• After the salon we went back the facial lady to check on KA's face. I decided that I might as well do a couple of my moles as well. I said 3 moles is good enough - all in my T-zone. When the lady looked at my face she counted 10 moles. We settled on doing 6. It was painful! Especially when she tried to do one on my neck. I jerked on the table and it startled KA. Yup - KA can stand more pain than me - I'm a wimp.
• Since being back here KA and I have started paying more attention to our looks (as it seems appearance is a huge thing here). We're obsessing about becoming 'white" - so we've got our whitening creams. We didn't think we would ever be in someone's house letting them burn our faces then giving them money for it.
  
• I'm tired now and sitting in the hotel watching "Big Fish" on the movie channel. I really miss TV! Tonight AN is taking us to some nice restaurant. Looking forward to it!
• My face is itchy and still stinks a bit from the afternoon. I've accidently wiped off some of the medication cream. I can see from KA's face that mine will take at least a week or more to heal properly.
  

Pictures Uploaded!

April 12th

• I got up this morning and started uploading some of my pictures from the trip to my gallery blog. I did some last night but it was so late by the time I finished uploading pictures from the first 2 days of the trip. I'm trying to do them in chronicological order.
  
• Waiting for AN to come and take us fishing today. He says that there's a place where we can catch our own meals. I'm excited. Got to lather on the sunblock and bug spray!
• KA and I had spent the day "fishing". My cousin's version of fishing is far from my version of it.
• The 3 of us headed out of the city and into a remote area. We pulled up to a restaurant that had a man-made-lake in the middle of it. They seated us in a hut with tables and chairs. The waiter brought over 3 fishing rods (which were just bamboo sticks with a fishing line and hook attached to it). We had a great time trying to catch something with our shrimp bait.
  
• Our fishing techniques weren't going so well - all the small fish were eating up our bait. We decided to take action. I asked our cousin if he could get the restaurant to give us a large net (as I was out to get those evil little fishes that had snatched up all my shrimp bait). As a tourist we can get away with a lot of things - so they gave us the net. The net's handle was metal so it made it really heavy. I devised a pulley system. I was out to get those little fish if it meant climbing into the water and catching them by hand!
  
• KA caught the first fish. It was the size of my finger - we sacrificed it and turned it into bait for the "big one". The big fish never got close enough to our rods - though they taunted us by jumping out of the water a few times. Looked like we weren't going to be able to catch our lunch. So we ordered from the menu instead - a 1.5 kg fish for us to munch on. It was so big and yummy!!
  
• I caught a baby fish later on and was thrilled! We took pictures of the excitement. I put my little fishy into a plastic bag and it started to shrivel up but not die. I was thinking of making it into bait. My guy cousin came and rescued the fish (he said he felt bad for turning the other one into bait). So my little fishy recovered after some tender care from the cousin. He and I watched it swim off into the lake.
• AN's girlfriend stopped by for lunch with us as well and the 4 of us sat, ate and talked for a few more hours. The wind was picking up and it made the hut very cool - which was a good thing as we were melting in the heat. I'm still not use to the 30 degree weather.
• After the restaurant we went back to the hotel. I told our cousin that he didn't have to entertain us tonight (as we've taken up so much of his time already and I'm pretty sure he wants to spend some time with his girlfriend as well).
• KA and I went out shopping tonight. We were mostly disappointed. So many stores but nothing that fit us. KA was frustrated. I found a shoe store that had "white" people sizes. I'm like a size 45 in Vietnamese standards. That's super hard to find. It's like walking into a women's shoe store here and asking for a size 13 "pretty" shoe. So I bought 2 pairs of shoes. Might not wear them though as the heels are pretty high.
• We finally got tired of shopping tried to hunt down food. Because both of us were so indecisive we ended up coming right back to the hotel area. We went next door to the Empress Hotel (that's where I'm stealing this internet connection from right now). The restaurant was filled with caucasion people. We looked at the prices of the menu items and nearly fell over. It was like 4X the price of "local" food. On top of that the restaurant charged a 15% government and service tax. This is the first time we've ever heard of such a tax. I took a picture of the menu. KA ordered chicken congee and I ordered nasigoreng. What I got was fried rice with an egg (over-easy) on top of it. So gross and expensive! We were tempted to order caucasion food (such as a hamburger) but were warned weeks before that the "white food" really sucks in Saigon. We're going back to local food tomorrow.

Stealing an Internet Connection!

April 11th

• I plugged my laptop in for the first time in the hotel and discovered 4 unsecured wireless connections!! I love people who don't secure their stuff! I can sit in the comfort of the hotel room and surf!!
  
• This is day 2 in Saigon for KA and I. We arrived yesterday morning after a very long (9.5 hours) bus ride from Nha Trang. We couldn't sleep on the bus as the driver is crazy and raced all the way into the city. I saw a motorbike accident which didn't make me feel any better about the bus zooming along and weaving in and out of traffic.
  
• We went shopping at another open market this morning. There were too many products that we were overwhelmed. Reminds me of a large Cho Dam (in Nha Trang) but our cousin says that the stuff in this market is shipped to the market in Nha Trang for resale. I don't like the crowds and don't like pushy sales people either - so I wandered around behind KA as she purused through the clothes (nothing fits).
  
• We went to the War Remnants Museum today. There were some pretty gruesome images there. The Vietnam War had so much media attention back then. Some good photography too. There was even a scary moment - when we looked into a dark cell and saw a wax prisoner looking right back at us. I nearly jumped out of my skin!
  
• After the museum trip we went to get KA's moles removed. She had decided to try it out here. KA and I met up with AN's friend who took us to this house. The lady in the house had medical equipment. I was kind of weary of the whole set up. They sell medical equipment and supplies on the streets - I've seen the many "hospital equipment" stores.
  
• KA went through with the procedure. It looked pretty painful - so I took pictures. It didn't look like regular "laser" treatment. Looked like the lady was just burning KA's face with a metal wire. She's now mole free but has to stay away from sunlight. The "technician" also recommended that she stay away from beef, chicken and seafood so that her wounds would heal faster. I wonder what left for her to eat - not much I guess. Actually - this might alleviate some of her stomach problems related to seafood.
  
• KA and I had the TV swapped out of our room tonight as the volume on it didn't work. I think the hotel staff are getting tired of us. We watched the english channels. It was so nice last night when I discovered an anime station. I miss cartoons so much!! I ended up leaving the TV on all night - I miss hearing/speaking in english.
• I went to their version of Superstore over here. It's about a block away so it's easy and convenient. The only scary part is crossing the street to get into the store - no traffic lights - almost got run over twice. That's one thing I'm TOTALLY looking forward to getting back to - "normal" traffic patterns.
  

April 10th

• We arrived in Saigon this morning at 5:30am. Our bus came in early so we had to wait for our cousin to come out and meet us. He thinks our bus comes in at 6am.
• The bus ride was on a greyhound type of bus so much more comfy then the van that we took into Nha Trang from Saigon the first day we arrived in Vietnam.
  
• We were suppose to take the train into Saigon but I wasn't able to get us any tickets the day that we were suppose to leave. We could have waited another day and taken the train later but KA and I were admited ready to get out of Nha Trang.
• We got off the bus to be greeted by a dead rat laying on the sidewalk - so gross. We stepped over it and sat down a bit to wait and get harrassed by the taxi drivers and motorbike guys. There were people in the park behind us exercising. We started watching them as they are always amusing.
• Anh Ngiem (AN) arrived and we went to the hotel. KA and I didn't like the room they put us in as the room had a musty smell and was too small. They upgraded us to a new room - the air conditioner in the second room didn't work. The hotel upgraded us after they had the housekeeper look at it. The final room we were upgraded to is really nice - very roomy and has a chinese symbol above the door (don't know what it means but I think it's the luck sign).
• We went out shopping after a couple of hours of rest. The hotel we're staying in is in the middle of the downtown core so stores are conveniently close. The strip that we're on right now has lots of computer stores - so that's where we started. KA was bored right away but at least our guy cousin didn't have to endure a FULL day of clothes shopping.
• There were no good deals on anything electronic over here. Boohoo!
  
• I've seen lots of knock off goods here. Spend a fair chunk of money on movies...hopefully we won't have any problems when we get back into town. Though the ladies that have sold me the movies have showed me "techniques" for evading inspection. Plus - there is nothing that the "right" amount of US dollars can't "fix" over here.
• I saw an SUV rush through the streets with alarm lights and sounds on. I thought it was an ambulance (as the hospital is near the hotel). AN said it was a rich man weaving through traffic. I looked again at the SUV and saw that it was completely tinted (dark tinting too). Could only see the driver - must be a REALLY rich man to have sirens on his vehicle.
  

April 9th

• Our last day in Nha Trang. We had many things to do and tidy up before we left.
• KA was having tummy problems (from the shark fish dinner we had the night before). She pretty much has written off anything that is "caught" by my family as none of it agrees with her so far.
• KA and I went to say goodbye to the extended family. Both grandmas cried so much. Such an emotional group. They're worried that they will never see us again - as they are old and don't think that they will live much longer. We took many pictures of the family.
• Some of the aunts waited for us to get our stuff and went to the bus to see us off. It was so touching as our parents didn't come to see us off (they're use to us traveling on our own). Being back in Vietnam has reminded me how important family is and why my parents want us to adopt many of the customs/culture they grew up with.
  
• I will miss having people cook/clean for me. KA and I will also miss having such a large extended family constantly around us. Back home we spend a lot of time on our own as everyone is busy working or doing their "own" thing. So different from life in Vietnam where family comes before everything else.
  

The Beauty Supply Store

April 8th

• KA and I woke up late this morning. We were in no rush to go anywhere.
• KA went to see how her clothes were coming along. The seamstress is still altering our stuff. Hopefully it will be ready for tonight. KA ordered another pair of pants as they fit well.
• CT took us to a beauty supply store today to get out hair straightening chemicals. We talked to the store owner and she told us horror stories of some salons that cheap out and mix their own chemicals with the straightening solution (to save money). She knows a girl who had some of her hair fall out so now that girl wears a hat. Uh oh! ;-) KA and I looked at all the brands and paid more (only like 5 bucks for the chemical) for Wella as it's a brand that I recognize.
• Now we're going to find a salon that will apply the treatment. KA is going to do it as well.
• KA found out that her mole removing procedure involves acid. So she said "forget it". Pouring acid on my face is probably the last thing that I would volunteer to do.
• This monring it rained and it made the walk to the beauty supply store more pleasant. Not as hot.
• While we were in the store we picked up various kinds of "whitening" lotions and nail art supplies. The prices are very good. I found out that buying from the supply store is MUCH cheaper when it comes to the face masks.
• I think all that I'm missing now is a matching purse and wallet set! Lol - there's so many knock off brand though. Some look like knock offs while others are alright. I haven't been really looking though as I don't like shopping in the Cho Dam (Dam Market). The name is rightful - as everyone there is "damn" awful. KA tries to avoid that market as much as she can.

Getting my hair washed

April 7th

• I had to create a seperate post for this as it's one of "those" experiences.
• KA and I were bored this afternoon (as I had mentioned in the last post). We had spent a hour or so watching a movie that I had boughten for Carol. The dubbing on it was so bad that we got bored of it. So we went to the salon down the street.
• We dragged mom along with us as well - time for her to get out of bed and get some fresh air. She's looking a bit better today now that the drugs are kicking in.
• The 3 of us had our hair and faces washed. A manicure and a pedicure. Cost was $95,000 Dongs total for the 3 of us (that's about $8 CDN).
• The hair washing was quite the experience though. The girls scratched, rubbed, slapped, knocked with their knuckles and pulled our hair to "stimulate" growth. It was so painful! But I was kinda expecting it as I go to an asian beauty parlor in Coquitlam and they give me the same treatment as well. Must be an asian thing. For the face washing - they pour water all over your face and rub/tap it like crazy. It kinda hurt as my girl had long pointy nails (which she used to dig into my head to get a thorough cleaning). I took a picture of KA while she was washing her hair - there were tears in her eyes. I don't think she enjoyed the "blood stimulating" procedures. :-)
• While they wash your hair - they put pieces of cold tomatoes on your face. I have to admit the cleaning is really intense as they scratch all over your head, behind your ears and even inside your ears. My girl wasn't careful so when she put the nozzle on my face to wash it - the water went up my nose. The whole washing hair/face took 1/2 hour. I was kinda weary though as one of the customers that came in to get her hair washed had lice. They were coming the lice out with a lice comb. Hmmm...she was laying next to me....
• After we got our hair washed KA had her hair straightened. I had mine just blow dried as it was too hot to sit still for a hot iron. They gave us a "massage" (or what they thought a massage should be - I was just wincing from the pounding) prior to blow drying our hair.
• We then go our manicures and pedicures. The girl who did the painting is really good and fast. She can cut cuticles and you don't even feel it. KA commented on it and said it's the fastest service she's had yet. Seeing these girls makes me want to go to beauty school - or maybe just go to a spa to be pampered!
• I had flowers painted on all my fingers and toes. Pretty elaborate work - her own designs with sparkles, etc. I took pictures! KA went with a simple polish and my mom only did designs on her big toes. I was so worried about my fingers/toes because they didn't get to dry properly before we went to dinner. I didn't want to use my chopsticks at dinner incase I wrecked the paint job. :-) So I took off my sandals and stared at the food for the first bit. Some of my cousins thought I couldn't eat the food. But realistically I didn't want to wreck my manicure but saying so would sound SO vain so I said I was just waiting for all the dishes to come out first before digging in.
• There was a guy getting his hair cut while we were getting our nails done. After his hair cut he got his ears cleaned. It's something that we've seen before over here. The cutter pulled up a chair and lamp and proceeded to pick inside the customers ears with various types of prongs and pickers. It looked so dangerous - as each metal rod was pointy and long. I'm sure you could easily pierce someone's ear drum with one of them.
• KA had taken a picture a couple of days ago of a man getting his hair cut on the street. He was sitting in a chair and the cutter did it all. Afterwards the customer asked the cutter if everything "looked good" and the cutter said "yes" (like he's going to say anything other than that) - then the customer paid him. There were no mirrors around.
• Tomorrow I'm going back to the salon to get my hair straightened chemically. It only costs about $20 for the 2.5 hour treatment. I've had people tell me that I should do it many times since I've been here (apparently I have ugly hair). They really like girls with long, straight, black hair. All of which I don't have. :-)
• KA as succumbed to the peer pressure of having her moles removed. She was really negative to the whole idea before and resented all tthe relatives talking about it. She found it super rude when people talked about her moles behind her back. I told her to get use to it as people talk about my weight behind mine (I'm super overweight in the eyes of my relatives). Blah - we'll never make those judgemental people happy so it's no use trying.
• Tonight we went to eat with some more cousins that I haven't seen before. Too much family.
• We ate roasted deer and some kind of serpent that was cooked with bananas. KA ordered a lot of pop to wash it down with. I didn't mind the food. Kinda liked the snake thing with bananas. Tastes like eel but smaller looking. We've eaten deer before so that wasn't really a new dish. My stomach is gurgling from dinner. Might have to pop a pepto bismal later.
• We walked back home from the beach. KA laughed and made a comment about our adventures for tomorrow. She says I'll go off to the salon, have my hair straightened and come back bald. She'll head to the plastic surgeon and come back with scars on her face. I laughed too and said that's about right. Hopefully all will go well tomorrow.
• If my hair treatment works then KA is going to get her hair straightened as well.

Island Girls

April 6th

• Today we're scheduled to go out to see some of the islands around Nha Trang. They are suppose to be really good sites for snorkeling and scuba diving.
• KA and I don't bring out bathing suits as we figure we won't be swimming with the whole family around.
• We got up early to head out to the harbour but my parents took their time and chit chatted with the uncles/aunts so we didn't leave till hours later. That could have been extra hours of sleep!
• 20 of us crapped onto a 10 person boat. Was really squishy with the food/cooler as well.
• The first island we went to was really beautiful. Crystal clear waters and lots fo coral/fishes to look at. Everyone sat under the huts and the cousins wanted to swim but didn't want to go in unless we did too. I went into the water so that they would have something to do. It was nice being in the water as the sun was so hot.
• I wore my capris pants and white t-shirt. I was soaking wet for the rest of the day. The other kids had their jeans and t-shirts on. Someday I'd like to just be free to walk around in my bathing suit. KA watched the other tourists who were on snorkeling trips. They looked like they were having fun. Reminded me of our Mexico snorkeling tours.
• The kids didn't know how to use the snorkeling stuff so it was funny. They went down too deep so the sea (salt) water went into the tubes and into their mouths. I swam around the coral and saw some nice fish. Only brushed up against the coral once but wasn't so bad - only a few scratches.
• We ate sandwiches and baked in the sun for a couple of hours before going to another island. By this time KA and I were pretty much tired and didn't want to play with our cousins anymore. They are still young and have silly games such as throwing dirt at each other or various slapping games. KA doesn't like those kinds of games - neither do I.
• We all squished back onto the boat and headed for another island. My uncle asked us if we wanted to go parasailing or rent skidoos. KA and I passed (eventhough it sounded better than sitting in the hot sun). The problem is that the people on the boat would have to wait for us and that wouldn't be fun for them.
• The next island we went to had a huge aquarium. We saw lots of big fishes (some the size of me!), turles, sharks and eels. Took some pictures of them. My cousins really like playing with our digital cameras as they like the idea of seeing the pictures right away. We let them take pictures with it but keep a watchful eye on them as we don't want them to damage the cameras.
• By the time we reached the third island we were tired and the sun was scortching hot. We didn't feel like doing anything. I just wanted to be sleeping under a tree or something like that. My mom looked pale - she has motion sickness so I don't think all the boat rides were doing anything good for her.
• We went home at 4pm and went straight to bed. We were pretty tired from the whole day and didn't want to spend any more time outside.
• KA and I got up at 9pm to go search for some dinner. We went to this clean looking restaurant. The waiter brought us 2 bowls and when he lifted the top bowl off - there was a swarm of ants that were in the second bowl. We didn't even blink at this. The ants ran the table and the waiter took the bowls away. KA casually wiped the ants off her side and continued looking at the menu. We're not picky about cleansiness anymore - as long as there's a fan in the restaurant then that's all we care about. I had taken a couple of pepto bismals during the day anyways so I wasn't too worried.
• We were suppose to go to Saigon tonight but there was much debate about it between my parents. My dad thinks we're ungrateful kids for not wanting to spend more time with our extended family. KA and I are done with that. We're in need of some alone time. I told my dad that staying 3 more days won't make a difference as we're just going to huddle by the air conditioned room and not want to socialize with anyone.

April 7th

• Woke up late this morning. My mom is feeling a bit better so it's good. We're thinking of getting our nails done today. Maybe even go out to get our hair washed (which is something that people do over here).
• We had brunch then bought some food for my cousins. KA and I stopped over at the seamstress' place to see if he was done with our stuff yet. He was. We tried them on. They didn't fit right. We were disappointed. We're having them adjusted again as we're paying quite a bit for these outfits. At first we thought it would be cheap to make clothes but after the cost of fabric and labour it works out better to just go buy stuff that's already made.
• KA and I are bored. We're playing on the pcs right now as it's too hot to do anything else. Plus it's siesta time so nothing is open.

Recap of the Tour

March 29th

• 1/2 hour before departure my dad decides that he wants to come on tour with KA and I. We already had problems trying to get airline tickets for my mom and CT but the tour operator made it possible. He said my dad had to take his chances at the airport as it was too late to buy a ticket from the company.
• There was a 1 hour delay at Cam Ranh Airport due to technical difficulties. KA, CT and my mom were drugged up (KA still didn't feel well from the catfish the other night) and CT/mom had motion sickness.
• The driver that met us in Da Nang (we didn't fly directly to Hue) was totally scary. He had a thick accent and we were glad that our parents decided to come along as I think if it was just KA and I we wouldn't have been able to understand his dialect.
• The driver took us to Hue using the tunnel pass. There was a mountain pass but he was driving as if he were on a race course so we opted for the "safer" route.
• There were parts of the drive where I had my heart race. Even my dad reached for his seatbelt (though no one wears them over here) at one point. I looked around the van - the rest of us didn't have seatbelts. Oh well - I figure at the speeds he was going we'd die anyways in some horrific crash.
• All drivers use their horns to signal a pass. Boy do they ever pass around here. There are even times when it's a dual or triple pass. Where cars are racing against other cars to try to pass the passers. Road signs are merely suggestions. I saw a no passing sign as we were trying to pass another car that was trying to pass a pickup truck.
• Da Nang is a very patriotic city. Lots of red flags with stars. We were told that every home and business has to have a flag infront of it. I guess I'm use to the southerners who aren't as patriotic. I wasn't able to get a picture though all those flags would have looked pretty nice on film.
• On the drive to Hue there were lots of rain forest and waterfalls. We didn't have time to stop to look at stuff and most of us had our eyes closed. Keeping our eyes closed when on longer journeys is the best bet. That way you're not tense from fear when you reach your destination.
• There were lots of temples hidden in the hillsides. The temperature in the north was cold(er). About 10 - 15 degrees. KA and I had brought clothing for 30 degree weather.
• We arrived at our 3 star hotel in Hue. We were pretty tired and wanted to rest before the tour guide arrived. There was hot water in the bathroom. KA and I were estatic as this was the first hot/warm shower in a tub that we've taken in 2 weeks.
• KA had to show CT how to use the tub and shower curtain as after CT took a shower the whole bathroom was soaking wet. She's use to taking showers Nha Trang style (which is just with a bucket of cold water and scooper). :-)
• Our Hue tour guide was this tiny little lady with a heavy accent too. She had come to the hotel earlier but we weren't there so she took off. She came back later though when we called the company asking where the Hue-guide was.
• The xit-lo drivers in Hue are pretty persistent. They wouldn't leave us along and tended to bike beside us trying to get us to ride on the chairs.
• That night we went to see an Imperial Concert aboard one of the concert ships. We didn't know what to expect. The guide took us to the boat then left us. We were kinda perplexed by this as we assumed our guides would go everywhere with us.
• The concert was good - though I didn't understand the music. There were 5 singers dressed in traditional Ao Dai's and 3 musicians.
• After the concert they gave us all wish-lanterns to let go into the river. Very beautiful scene with all the laterns floating...camera does not work well in dim lighting...grrr. We all made wishes before letting our lanterns go - some of us were more worried about falling over board or having our lantern sink (which is a BAD sign).

March 30th

• We woke up early and had a buffet breakfast. KA was really happy as this was the first western-style dining we've had in a long time. KA has gotten a bit weary of our street eating and her tummy still wasn't feeling "right". Nothing Pepto Bismal can't cure!
• We went to visit the Imperial City today. The guide showed up in a traditional outfit and hussled us into the van with our nutty-driver.
• There was a lot of "culture" to see today. Visited temples and monastaries. Lots of picture taking as well. But after awhile all the temples kinda blended together. My family did get an opportunity to dress up in Royal clothing and take pictures as King, Queen and Princesses. That was pretty fun.
• After the tour we walked around the city at night to explore the eating facilities. We ended up having Bun Bo Hue (as we were in Hue!). It rained that day so we were under a tarp with our driver (who also ate with us).
• The day was gloomy so we didn't want to go out at night too long (didn't have umbrellas).
• We had to get to bed a bit earlier as we had a flight into Ha Noi the next morning and the driver said he'd come pick us up at 7am. We wanted to get some of the yummy buffet breakfast into our tummies before heading out to Ha Noi.

March 31st

• We head out to Ha Noi (the Capital) early in the morning. The driver takes us right into the airport and waits for us to check in. The service is great - guess it comes with our tour package.
• We fly Vietnam Airlines and get their standard snack: ham & cheese sandwich with a cup of water. We fly Vietnam Airlines 3 times on our 6 day tour.
• Ha Noi is a pretty city. Much bigger than Hue and full of toll gates. But on the bright side our tour guide in Ha Noi is this young guy who we can understand (as his accent is not as harsh).
• As we drive to the hotel he shows us the "thit cho" communities. Thit Cho = dog meat. Dog meat is a specialty of the north. I try to take a picture of all the restaurants that have it advertised in their signs but the car was going too fast. We have another crazy driver.
• In Ha Noi we went to visit some lakes, temples and more cultural centers. My dad is totally bored and ran off to sit with the locals who were fishing in the lake. The rest of us following the guide around the lake.
• The shopping is better in Ha Noi as it's a bigger city. There are more stores that are catered to tourists. More things that are likely to fit us. We didn't find anything that we liked though. Bummer! Though we tried very hard.
• Ha Noi has a wonderful night market. Much bigger than Vancouver's chinese night market. We went there 2 nights in a row. Took some pictures of it too.

April 1st

• We head to Ha Long Bay. It was a 4 hour bus ride there and the guide on the bus was this grumpy girl. We were already tired as she came 1 hour late - which caused the Ha Noi guide to sit around with us to wait for her to show up.
• Ha Long Bay is beautiful. The day as foggy so we didn't to see the islands too clearly. Though it made everything kinda mysterious looking.
• The weather is too cold to take a dip in the waters. But I don't think I would anyways as there is a lot of trash in the water for a tourist site.
• We did a 4 hour tour of the Bay then headed to Tuan Chau Island.
• Tuan Chau Island is a tourist trap. It caters to just tourists and there's no way on/off the island unless you call up your guide.
• The good thing about Tuan Chau is that it's a replica of all the nice tourist spots around the world.
• One of the entertainment domes is a miniture Sydney Opera House - really good accoutics in there. The entertainment in the dome was large pool in which whales, seals and dolphins performed.
• Our tour package covered a lot of entertainment. Because the weather was MUCH cooler we didn't feel as tired so quickly and enjoyed ourselves more (maybe because it was just the main family and we didn't have to entertain extended family).
• We went to see a water show that rivals any Belagio (Vegas) show. Complete with lasers, music and movie on a 6 storey screen of water. We were really impressed with this show as it mimics everything that the Belagio in Las Vegas has to offer.
• There are other entertainment on the island - private beaches as well. We went to see some zoo animals perform the next day - it was a good show too.
• The island is still under development. Our hotel is secluded as it sites in a construction site (there are a couple of other hotels being built around it). It's weird not having noise wake you up in the mornings. We're use to the sounds of city life waking us up but out there it's so quiet - only the sounds of the frogs.
• I think that if I return to Vietnam again then I would go to Ha Long Bay and stay on Tuan Chau Island before going down to visit any family. It's so nice there - more of the "vacation-style-living" that I'm accustomed too. KA and I didn't get an opportunity to spend any time of the Sheishedo Executive Spas - too bad as the price were SO cheap!! :-(
• We only got to say one night in Tuan Chau - the tour bus was to arrive and pick us up at noon.
• Noon the next day came and went with no bus to be seen. We were annoyed. We called the Ha Noi guide to see what was going on. He told us to just hold on and wait. We waited another 2 hours then called the Nha Trang guide to see if he can tell us what's going on. He had to call the other guides to get our schedule. So in the end we waited 6 hours for the bus to arrive. That was such a waste of time. We sat in the hotel room and watched movies on HBO (english movies!!).
• When the bus did come we were all tired and irritable. CT was sick the whole ride back to Ha Noi (we had run out of Gravol for her).
• By the time we reached Ha Noi it was too late to do anything. We left CT at the hotel and went searching for some food at 8pm. We hit the night market and walked around there for a bit. By the time we got back it was pretty late and we had an early morning flight.

April 2nd

• We woke up late. We had asked for a early morning wake up call but they forgot to do it. So our guide had to wait while we packed and got ready. My parents took their time getting downstairs and wanted to have some breakfast before going to the airport.
• I told KA that we're going to die on the car ride to the airport as we only had one hour to get there and check in. The driver was already crazy on a normal day. My parents finished their breakfast and we litterally raced all the way to the airport.
• Mental note to myself - when a driver turns on his hazards and flies down a highway...it's best to just close your eyes and not think about the lack of a seatbelt. There are people who jay-walk across the highways.
• We arrive at the airport in record time (half hour) and begin to check in. The airline girl takes forever. I hear "Vietnam Airlines flight 267 now boarding" on the intercom. We were still waiting for the girl to tag our luggage.
• KA and I get confused by the gate signs. Our boarding passes said "Gate 2". We looked up at the signs: "Gates 1-4 turn left" or "Gates 2-9 turn right". Nothing is clear when you're in a hurry. We look at the signs carefully again and read them in Vietnamese - much clearer (one was for domestic flights and one was for international). I don't think a Westerner would have been able to figure that out on his own.
• We rush towards the Gates 1-4 corridor. I hear "would passengers Le Dang Kim Anh, Le Dang Kim Hoang, Dang Thi Xuyen and Le Van Them please go to Gate 2". We run as fast as we can. We hop on the plane and try to find our seats. The other passengers on the plane had to wait for us.
• We ate our ham/cheese sandwiches and try to get some sleep. We arrive back in Nha Trang 2 hours later. The weather is 30 degrees again. I miss the rain - who would have thought?!

Saigon here we come!

April 5th

• KA and I leave for Saigon tomorrow night. We'll be traveling by train so it should be interesting.
• Today we tried to finish off some last minute things - such as print some pictures to give to the family here. Hopefully the picture quality will be good as I was a bit skeptical of the store - they didn't seem to have a computer so I kept asking if they had the capabilities of printing from an SD card.

April 4th

• KA and I went to the beach today. We wanted to just go down there and lay around (possibly read a book).
• We found on of the tourist spots. Paid $15,000 Dongs/chair and enjoyed the quietness. The rental of the chairs is pretty expensive but because it's part of the "marked" areas then the rental fee comes with security guards to watch over you and a flagged off area in which beggars and vendors won't come and bug you. Plus it was nice to hang with the whities! :-)
• KA wanted to make sure we weren't too close to the locals as she was not interested in listening to them gossip about the tourists. It's a fun past time - to go down to the beach and gawk at the tourists in their bikinis.
• Both of us wore our bikinis under our tank tops and capris pants. We didn't take our outer clothing off. We watched some of the local girls dive into the water and splash around fully dressed. :-) We haven't seen any local girls wear "bathing suits" yet (well - what we're use to as bathing suits). If you go into a store and ask to buy a bathing suit - they will hand you a tank top and pair of shorts. In dark colors of course.
• Tonight we had goat for dinner. It was definately "interesting". Nevertheless KA and I prefer "steamed goat" over roasted-goat. Luckily my parents asked them to chop the goat up for us as when they brought it out both KA and I looked at each other then back at our uncle and smiled politely.
• I've learned that when eating things that are not on my usual menu - it's best to order many cans of "coca" (Coke) to wash it down with. KA and I became quickly full on pop.

April 3rd

• Tonight we went out for dinner with some of the cousins. Chi Trang and her fiance took us to this fancy restaurant that served your choice of critter. There were misters in the restaurant to keep the guests cool.
• She ordered live oysters, frog legs, clams and mussels. The frog legs were pretty good. Tastes like chicken! And it was done "Thai" style so it was pretty spicy! I took pictures.